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The Power of the P*ssy

Posted in January 2010, Life with tags , , , , , , , , on January 12, 2010 by B. Jones

Today I had to read the story of creation for my Classical Mythology class and of course it included the story of Adam & Eve.  I don’t care what your religious beliefs are 9 times out of 10 you will know the story of Adam & Eve even if you grew up in an atheist household you’ve had friends recant the story for you at least once.  Well, while I was reading a this story (something I haven’t read in YEARS!) I realized how much power woman has had over man since the beginning of time.  Despite Adam being here first and knowing that God told him not to eat from the Tree of Knowledge he caved in after Eve told him to try it out because it was good.

As we all know, Adam was lonely for a couple of years before God realized he needed a partner in life.  It’s stated that “…a man shall leave his father and his mother and cling to his wife.” (Genesis 2: 25) Just reading the word “cling” makes me think that God was sitting Adam up for failure with this woman. Continue reading

Things I Wish I Had Done Before I Came to College

Posted in December 2009, Life, Random with tags , , , , , , , on December 12, 2009 by B. Jones

So it’s finals week at my university and even though I banned myself from Facebook until they’re over I’ve found other ways to procrastinate and that’s through this blog.  So here’s a list of this I wish I’d done back in the day when my education was free and Daddy was paying for the gas to go in my car.

  1. Tried out to be a dancing girl-I love to dance behind closed doors, but I refuse to dance in front of most people.  Now at my school the dancing girls were the s**t and everyone knew that if you were one of them you were high school royalty.  I could have had a plethora of men lined up back then.  Oh well *Kayne shrug*
  2. Taken my acne medication religiously-I had HORRIBLE skin growing up and I still have the scars to prove it.  From about 7th grade to 11th grade my face looked like a nest of bees had went on the attack.  My Mom took me to the dermatologist numerous times.  The first one I went to gave me all this stuff that dried the hell out of my skin causing even more outbreaks.  The next one helped me by giving me medication through the form of pills which helped my skin so much, but the problem that happened was I got the big head and stopped taking those pills.  Which leads me to my next point… Continue reading

Why Do Women Say They’re Saving Their Virginity For “Mr. Right?”

Posted in December 2009, Relationship with tags , , , , on December 8, 2009 by B. Jones

Okay, I was over at Naked With Socks On and ran across an article titled Virgin Blues (Do Men Only Want Sex From A Woman?) that caught my attention.  In a letter a 21 year old girl talks about how she met a guy who she TEXTED with for weeks and after about three times hanging out I believe he tried to get it or things were just getting a little too hot for her taste.  When she realized what he wanted she decided to inform him that she was waiting on “Mr. Right,” whoever the hell that is.  Now she stated that she wasn’t waiting until she got married to lose her virginity and if that’s the case, how do you know that you’ll have “Mr. Right?”  Now I have no problem with people wanting to save their virginity, but don’t say you’re waiting on “Mr. Right” if you’re not waiting until marriage because honestly dating a guy two years and then giving up the goodies to him doesn’t mean he’s the one.  Why do I say that?  Well that boyfriend who waited two years of going without sex can leave you because 1.) He got what he wanted out of you.  (Your virginity and sex).  2.) Something goes completely wrong in the relationship and it can’t be saved. I held the idea that I was going to wait until I got married, but then I started dating and realized that I was going to give into my teenage hormones before marriage because certain things feel good and I realized that I wanted to give into my curiousity of how it felt. Continue reading

Do You Know Your Status?

Posted in December 2009, Life with tags , , , , , on December 1, 2009 by B. Jones

Today is the first day of December and if you didn’t know that means it’s World AIDS Day.  AIDS is the leading cause of death among African American woman ages 25-34 and the leading cause of death in Africa.  Almost 3 million new HIV cases reported last year and 2 million HIV related deaths worldwide.  If you’ve been sexually active I highly recommend you going to get tested even if you’ve used condoms.  I got tested back in September at a program my school had and it was a scary thing and by far the longest 20 minutes of my life.  I know fear is one of the main reasons why some people don’t get tested, but it’s even scarier not knowing your status and the possibility that you can infect someone else.  If you’re in a relationship with someone take them with you to get tested at your local health clinic where I believe the cost is absolutely nothing.  If your partner won’t get tested my message to you is perhaps you shouldn’t be having sex.  If you’re in college head down to your school’s health center.  My school’s health center charges a fee, but it’s well worth.  Also make sure you wear condoms.  If you’re afraid to buy them at the store you can get them at health clinics and your school’s health center for free at most places.   If you’re afraid to get condoms at either of these places once again my message is perhaps you shouldn’t be having sex.

Paging Robin Thicke!

Posted in Entertainment, November 2009 with tags , , , , , , , on November 19, 2009 by B. Jones

Okay, so I think I’m officially in love with Robin Thicke!  I’m a little late with this video, but I gotta say Paula Patton is one lucky chick!  When I first heard this song I didn’t really care for it, but now that there’s a video Oh Lawd! This man is beyond sexy and that voice?  Mmmm, I just melt.  I’d be more then willing to go the jungle fever route for this man. :-p

What do ya’ll think?